Think, "Beautiful"

When a woman feels beautiful and sexy, she acts beautiful and sexy. After that, it's a short step to looking beautiful and sexy to everyone else. It isn’t so much the reality of what we look like as it is our personal body image that determines our attractiveness to others.

Haven’t we all seen an overweight woman who exudes confidence and sex appeal? You see her and do a double-take. That is a beautiful woman! Her positive self image is revealed in the way she dresses, her hairstyle and makeup, the way she carries herself and her warm smile.

You study her haircut and earrings. You marvel at the perfectly-applied makeup and pedicured toes. You might even go so far as to wish you had an apple figure and ship prow breasts like hers. What is it, exactly, that makes her so lovely?

Of course it is her self confidence. Although she’s too nice to say it out loud, her demeanor reads: “Out of the way, skinny chicks. Let a Real Woman through. And make the path a bit wider, already! Momma’s got booty! ”

Some women just have it figured out. Until those women start giving free seminars at supermarket deli counters, we’ll have to dig deep, girls. Think, “Beautiful!” when you look in the mirror. Come out from under those loose, sloppy clothes. Walk tall. Paint your toenails. Wear lip gloss to the grocery store. Get a push-up bra. Whatever you do, don’t hide. Be “out there” and be gorgeous.

Strut down the wide path through the skinny chicks. I’ll meet you there!